Knowing what you don’t want is just as important as knowing what you want. Be sure you understand the content of the box before fully accepting it. A lot of people end up living miserable lives because they were so concerned about what it is they wanted forgetting that there are also thing they don’t… Continue reading I don’t want it!
The two responses to fear are fight or flight. Most times we try to avoid, evade or run away from something, we are doing it out of fear. Fear of what the outcome may be if we come face to face with it. on the other hand, when people fear something, they begin to hate… Continue reading Stop Running
Everyone (including you and I) have at least one person to blame for our misfortunes. We say to ourselves “if only my parents made better choices, if only my mum listened to me then, if only I was educated, if only I wasn’t neglected, if only I wasn’t born into a poor family, if only… Continue reading Back to the future
Different people need different things; your ability to recognize what they need early enough in the relationship, would save you from a lot of heartache. When you identify their need, then you decide whether you are able or willing to meet that need or not. If you are not willing and able to, it’s of… Continue reading Relationship Ethics 103
There are people who apply for a job, not because they intend to make any meaningful contribution to the organization but because they just need to pay their bills. These people really don’t care about the growth of the company; as long as they get their pay, they are cool (at least until they get… Continue reading Relationship Ethics 102
The issue of abuse and domestic violence in relationships can never be overemphasized. Most people at some point or the other in their lives have either been victims or perpetrators of abuse. Abuse can be in any form – physical, sexual, verbal, mental or emotional. It can occur in all kinds of relationships even amongst… Continue reading Dealing with abuse in relationships
Abusers are everywhere you go; as a matter of fact, we all have the potential to turn into one ourselves especially when the desire to be in control or have our way becomes so overwhelming that it begins to becloud our sense of fairness and equality. Anyone can be an abuser irrespective of their age,… Continue reading Unmasking the Abuser