Everyone (including you and I) have at least one person to blame for our misfortunes. We say to ourselves “if only my parents made better choices, if only my mum listened to me then, if only I was educated, if only I wasn’t neglected, if only I wasn’t born into a poor family, if only… Continue reading Back to the future
Just like love grows, so does hatred. There are people who would hate you to the extent that they begin to hate the fact that you breathe. A while ago they couldn’t stay in the same room with you very soon it would begin to bother them that they are in the same planet… Continue reading I hate you
Different people need different things; your ability to recognize what they need early enough in the relationship, would save you from a lot of heartache. When you identify their need, then you decide whether you are able or willing to meet that need or not. If you are not willing and able to, it’s of… Continue reading Relationship Ethics 103
I grew up hearing people say “heaven helps those who help themselves”. In as much as I don’t believe in such statement because it lacks scriptural basis, I still believe trusting God is not enough. A lot of people believe that there’s a God out there who holds all the power on His hands and… Continue reading Trusting God is not Enough
Be careful when you try to make people miss you by being unavailable. There are people who would miss you so much to the point that they end up forgetting you that actually exist. It’s not that they didn’t love you, they are just very good at moving on. If they really value you, nothing… Continue reading I missed you too….but who are you?
At some point in our lives, most of us have crossed paths with some people that we feel powerless when we are in their presence, for most of us, this person happens to be someone we love and care about so much that we can’t bear the thought of letting go of them. We would… Continue reading Get back your power!
The issue of abuse and domestic violence in relationships can never be overemphasized. Most people at some point or the other in their lives have either been victims or perpetrators of abuse. Abuse can be in any form – physical, sexual, verbal, mental or emotional. It can occur in all kinds of relationships even amongst… Continue reading Dealing with abuse in relationships