You need to be very careful with the way you take the people whom God has placed in your life. What do you see when you look at people? Do you see a money tree, a partner in crime, an errand boy, an object to satisfy your sexual desires, a cook, an adviser, a doctor,… Continue reading What do you take me for?
Everyone (including you and I) have at least one person to blame for our misfortunes. We say to ourselves “if only my parents made better choices, if only my mum listened to me then, if only I was educated, if only I wasn’t neglected, if only I wasn’t born into a poor family, if only… Continue reading Back to the future
Just like love grows, so does hatred. There are people who would hate you to the extent that they begin to hate the fact that you breathe. A while ago they couldn’t stay in the same room with you very soon it would begin to bother them that they are in the same planet… Continue reading I hate you
Different people need different things; your ability to recognize what they need early enough in the relationship, would save you from a lot of heartache. When you identify their need, then you decide whether you are able or willing to meet that need or not. If you are not willing and able to, it’s of… Continue reading Relationship Ethics 103
I grew up hearing people say “heaven helps those who help themselves”. In as much as I don’t believe in such statement because it lacks scriptural basis, I still believe trusting God is not enough. A lot of people believe that there’s a God out there who holds all the power on His hands and… Continue reading Trusting God is not Enough
There are people who apply for a job, not because they intend to make any meaningful contribution to the organization but because they just need to pay their bills. These people really don’t care about the growth of the company; as long as they get their pay, they are cool (at least until they get… Continue reading Relationship Ethics 102
Learn to understand people’s place in your life and also know your place in theirs or the position you want to be placed in. If they placed you in the top executive position or you desire that post, you are deceiving yourself if you think the ethics of a clerk would get you there… Continue reading Relationship Ethics 101